Love+Relationships

You Get Love. Yes, You.


“The intimacy we desire in love and relationships is divinely coded within us. We are intended to be in intimately connected relational systems. As women, we naturally answer this divine call by seeking these connections in our own unique ways. And so, we satisfy our own desires as well as inspiring healing connectivity in the community around us.”
Aya Iworiosa

The majority of women I work with experience tremendous insight and transformation by way of their relationship journeys. All of our experiences, even the terrible ones, contribute to calling in what we really desire. Sometimes it is a challenge to embody, but we must remember that we are also made to receive love in abundance.

When it comes to love and relationships, I know the journey has been confusing and rough for many of us. My own Love Life, back then, was not a fun experience. It used to make me cry, often. The experience of dating felt like a joke was being played on me and I felt like I could not escape bizarre patterns that would break my heart over and over again. Though I had a deep inner desire to experience healthy partnership and nourishing love, I felt diminished by my Love Life experiences. I started to ask for and get accustomed to the bare minimum from potential partners and, sadly, I received less. Interestingly, I saw these similar patterns in some of my platonic friendships. This experience bred desperation (love repellent), unforgiving loneliness, and poor boundaries. It seemed like everyone but me got an invitation to experience nourishing intimacy in partnerships or at least they got better chances. I often obsessed over the thought…

“What am I not getting!?

A friend said to me “Remember, you are the gift.” When I realized that this was hard for me to accept, I knew that I needed to work with myself deeply to turn things around. I transformed; I learned that I was worthy of better. I made better relationships with my divine team to help me manifest the desires of my heart.  I learned to let go of past relationships in a lasting way. I developed a sense of awareness that helped me end patterns that were holding me back. Along with the support of Spiritual helpers and guidance from mentors and coaches, my Love Life changed, drastically. My dating and partner experiences started to be a closer match to what I desired to experience. I was able to accept the invitation into the world of healthy potential partners. In beautiful synchronicity, my friendships and familial relations improved too.

Today I am experiencing abundance, joy, and awesome spiritual evolution in my partnership. I experience mutual honor, trust, and respect. The desires that I had for a partner in my life were met plus more good stuff I did not expect. At one time I did not think this could even happen for me. Now I know…

“I am worthy of this experience. The magic and Spiritual energy surrounding us is healing. I say this with full sincerity, my relationship feels better than I could have dreamed. This partnership is sacred.


Your Love and Relationships

Those who have arrived at this page are ready to change the course of their Love Life, evolve relationship they currently in, finally move on from old partners, break bizarre patterns, or simply create a Love Life that is nourishing to their soul. Some of you simply want more nourishing relationships with those around you.

One of my greatest pleasures is to support women in their Love Lives. I have been supporting women on this journey for long back as I can remember. At some point, I even became a Certified Love Attraction Coach™️. Creating a better experience in the world of Love and Relationships is always possible no matter what your current experience is. The transformation always happens within and I know that if you are seeking support, you are ready for a change.

We are here to create the Love Life you desire, periodt.

Let’s do this.

Aya Iworiosa (Alexandra Loves)


Three Ways to Begin Our Work Together

One-On-One Sessions

The One Month New Moon Journey

This journey is highly suggested if you want to turn things around quickly in a lasting way, if you are going through a tough break up, and/or if you are ready to change an unending pattern in your Love Life.

Study at Home Course

Course: ‘Seven Struggles in Love and Dating:’ Covering the most common subjects and solutions that create blocks, unwanted patterns and pain in your love life.

Classes: 1.Red Flags, 2.Dating: Earth, Air, Fire, Water, 3.Am I Ready? 4.Ghosting, 5.Letting Go/ Releasing, 6.Working with Your Team:Ancestors, Spirits, Angels (aka Energetics), and 7.Potential VS What Is Happening.


Free Offering


“I gained so much from participating in the Juicy Love Life program. I was able to get clarity around what I wanted in my life and to start believing that the universe is listening and able to give me what I want. Before taking the Juicy Love Life program I was attracting partners that were the same “old thing”. I was tired of doing the same thing and expecting different results, (definition of insanity). As I started the program I felt supported by other women and knew if I was struggling, I wasn’t alone. Alexandra made it safe for me to open up and share my struggles with the group and to get support from the community. I highly recommend this program for other women as you can create the kind of life you have always dreamed of. I am now attracting the kind of partners I want and am excited about the future. My goddess is alive and well inside of me! The Juicy Love Life program helped bring my goddess alive and made her powerful. All women deserve to feel this way!!!”

— Melissa M., Portland, OR

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